Read this when you're on your 30s and you don't know what to do in your life

Some of your friends might have been married by now. The others may have gone ahead in their careers. They may be managing their own business, traveling to beautiful places, or being a teacher at the university you all used to go to.

You're happy for their success and growth and even attend their invites in celebration of their milestones. But behind those genuine smiles and sincere congratulations, you can't help but to recognize the hollow feeling inside of you. The feeling of emptiness since most people are advancing in their lives and you feel like your are stuck where you were years ago.

That emptiness eventually turns to loneliness. For some people.

For today, it's important to remember that it's okay not to have everything figured out. Life is a journey, not a destination, and it's perfectly normal to feel unsure about your next steps. The path to fulfillment and happiness is rarely a straight line.

Sometimes the detours and unexpected turns are where we find the most growth and meaning.

Take a deep breath and give yourself permission to explore and experiment. I mean, what are the stakes? This may be the perfect time for you to try new things, explore your creativity, and follow your curiosity. Do the things that you put off doing years ago because you were afraid of what others may say about you.

By now, you realize that everybody is busy in their own lives and they don't really talk and think about you just as you thought it was when you were all younger.

Reflect on your passions and what truly makes you happy. Sometimes, the answers to our biggest questions lie in the things we enjoy the most. Don't be afraid to pursue what feels right, even if it seems unconventional or risky.

In this life, it's a constant reminder that we are never alone. There's strength in the community, and you don't have to navigate this journey by yourself. Be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion. It's easy to be your harshest critic, but try to treat yourself with the same understanding and empathy you would offer a close friend.

Life is an ever-evolving adventure, and while the future may be uncertain, it also holds endless possibilities.

Embrace the unknown with an open heart and a curious mind, and know that you have everything you need within you to navigate this journey.